Fetish Clothing and a Beautiful Redhead

Clothing is a major part of what can take a beautiful female to the next level.

Feminine clothing is designed to be alluring; a compliment to the feminine figure, heightening appeal while flattering the natural curves of a woman’s body. This can be done in a way that is very demure, or highly sexual… much in the way that women themselves are highly sexual creatures, manifesting this sometimes in subtle ways and other times in striking forms that cannot help but be noticed.

Fetish fashion is an example of a highly stylized version of this. Ranging from sophisticated to slutty, fetish clothing is meant to be provocative and often extreme. But in all of its possible forms, one thing is certain - the sexual nature of the female is put under a beautiful spotlight set to send the pulse racing. Often this type of fashion is associated with BDSM, particularly the standard costume of the Dominatrix. Fetishing clothing is an integral part of the BDSM scene.

I stumbled across a site last night that provoked this post. A dominatrix phone sex advertisement that offered up a picture gallery of a beautiful redhead in fetish clothing. Dressed in a tight red corset with garters leading to thigh high stockings… long satin gloves, a choker, and platform high heels… with flaming golden red hair… this women set off fetish so wonderfully well. Especially adept at showing off her beautiful legs, her many poses flattered her lovely body perfectly, and teased men who love seeing fetish clothing and sexy legs, masterfully. Take a look for yourself - Redhead Dominatrix


She offers up a couple of free fetish audio clips too, nice one’s at that. The femdom one is a slave abduction scene that is around 6 minutes long. The other is shorter, being a foot fetish tease with a sexy edge to it.

If you look at her pictures, take notice of how well the corset fits her, and how attractive her legs are in those stockings.

This is an example of a woman that poses very well. But most important to note is that she is only 5 feet tall, and yet her legs are so sexy and well positioned that they appear much longer.

As for the corset, the example there, besides how good it looks on her and how well it matches her redhair, is found in how well it fits her. Many corsets are cut for a general size. Since they are meant to fit tight and are very rigid in their positioning, often they don’t fit quite right on a particular woman. This isn’t the woman’s fault, it’s the fault found in buying a general size rather than a corset that is custom made for your figure. Corsets in their true form are meant to fit a given figure perfectly, which is why the difference between how a custom model looks and a commercial one is so striking. In this case, the redhead dominatrix in the pictures either has had this custom fitted or lucked out in finding a commercial piece that was made to her measurements.

The small picture I've put here doesn't do the woman justice, it's just the most "tame" of the selection her site offers. There are another 20 or so pictures in her gallery, each a thumbnail leading to a full size, high quality png version.

Very Sexy Young Woman

When I speak of female beauty I don’t mean a single type. I hope I’ve made that clear in what I have so far said.

Female beauty is hard to define by specific terms. It is better described by how it makes one feel, because beauty in the feminine form can be displayed in a multitude of wonderful ways.
It’s not just physical appearance, it’s so much more. But when considering physical appearance alone, there is so much to consider, so much to enjoy. The stereotype of the thin model is nonsense. That is but one figure of beauty and even then that “size” has such variety to it when considering the differences in eyes, skin tones, lips, etc. It’s never just one thing. Fuller figured women are no less beautiful than those of more diminutive form. The fuller the woman, the fuller the curves, and curves are a primary part of feminine physical beauty. Angles are masculine; soft lines and curves are feminine.

Then one goes beyond the physical to so very much more. The mind behind the body, and the attitude that presents the body and brings it to life. How a woman carries herself is just as beautiful as her physical attributes, and can often make or break an otherwise lovely body. The mind behind those sexy eyes holds all the promises of what the body could do. How it could tease you and how easily enchanted you might become.

An example of this perhaps is this sexy young woman - Cock Tease and Denial. She’s a beautiful young stripper I’ve been watching (I can't resist talking about her again; she risks becoming something of an obsession for me). Thin, graceful body. Absolutely beautiful, angel face. Long, perfect blonde hair. And eyes that so easily hypnotize; full of as much promise as they are tease. There are many free pictures on her site and I hope for more. She truly is the stuff the best female fantasies are made of.

A Little More About Sissy Fantasies and Cross Dressing

…and it’s relation to female beauty.

I found an interesting website this morning, written by a male slave who is essentially thinking out loud over the question of - why are men attracted to the idea of feminization.

Some interesting thoughts there from him, and also from transexuals and cross dressers who wrote comments in reply. One in particular wrote a sizable piece talking about her own happiness at having gone through with her decision to become a female.

He also shares a number of very hot sissy audio stories, recorded by a dominatrix he appears to be quite enamored with (based on the pictures of her that he has posted there, I can understand why. She well fits my thoughts on the kind of female beauty that is bold and confident, full of feminine sexuality and pride).

I’m looking for more sissy audio clips of this sort actually. The ones on the site I am talking about are highly sexual and graphic in nature, and perfect for me to use as examples of the sexual side of feminization as both lifestyle and fetish. (There are also some equally intense sissy stories linked to that site too by the way).

But I’m also looking for softer sissy audio stories that are dedicated to training a man to be more feminine. I want to use it to support my point about how there are many sissy men more interested in developing themselves as women just for that sake alone, than solely the sexual possibilities of feminization.

I myself am not interested in such transformation, but like I said in my first post, I do find shemale beauties to be very attractive. Feminization is the process through which a shemale is made, and my understanding of this subject is beneficial to my overall understanding of these lovely ladies.

Admiring Female Beauty Through Imitation

While I myself am not a cross dresser or sissy, I think I can understand the attraction some men have to the idea of imitating a woman.

Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery after all, and as such, a man seeking to dress and behave like a woman is in its way, a clear compliment to the beauty and grace that is integral to being female.

I say that I can understand the attraction for this exact reason. While my admiration for female beauty doesn’t manifest in this form, I don’t judge the way it does for others. If women weren’t such amazing, beautiful creatures, we wouldn’t be so drawn to them. For some men this draw is so strong they wish they could be female too.

I think it is wrong to try to box the concept of cross dressing into being a “sexual fetish”. While this is true for some, it isn’t for all. For most cross dressers, sex isn’t the focus, being female is. That is where they find their freedom and what they feel to be their true place in the world.

The same thing holds for the “sissy fetish” - which is essentially a more stylized form of cross dressing. While assumed to be a sexual fetish and something done strictly for forms of gay or femdom sex, reality is the real focus for many sissies, just like other cross dressers, is on being female. Given the choice between watching porn and watching a show that described a new type of makeup and its application, most sissies I know would choose the latter with great excitement and anticipation.

Some might call it sick or repulsive, but when looked at from an open mind, cross dressing first and foremost is a life choice made by another person that should be respected as their decision. Secondly, of all the choices on could make, this one in itself, is a harmless one, so there is little to complain about in truth. And finally, it is merely another person’s way of expressing their admiration and love of female beauty, something we all share.

Another Interesting and Extreme Fetish - Ballbusting

On the topic of female beauty, I find feminine power extremely attractive. Not that feminine submission isn’t equally attractive, just that there are many different sides to the potential of female beauty.

Truly dominant women are creatures of striking appearance and commanding presence. They demand both obedience and attention.

When you add aggression to this mix you have something truly glorious in a way that overwhelms the senses. A being that can and will overpower you on every level. She will have what she desires.

And if you push that aggression to an extreme, you have a ruthless beauty who takes what she wants with little care. Sadism is a lover to her, while her partners are mere victims to feed her appetites; discarded once consumed. And even the strongest of men learn submission at the hands of a superior female who will not be denied.

One example of a fetish that such women enjoy is that of femdom ballbusting.

I know that those unfamiliar with the expression will find its meaning shocking - ballbusting is sexual enjoyment derived from a man being kicked in the groin by a dominant woman.

This is one of the most striking single displays of female physical and sexual power there is. In an instant it removes all pretenses of male dominance, leaving him completely incapacitated and vulnerable. While raising the woman up to a position of complete control.

Picture the image of a woman standing strong and beautiful over a man who is curled in a ball at her feet in pain. High heels. Thigh High Stockings. Tight Dress. Makeup, Hair, Nails - all perfect. The epitome of female sexual power, removing any delusions of dominance the male may have had.

This link will give you an example of what I mean. It will take you to some free ballbusting stories that will give you an idea of what kind of sexual fantasies those enjoying this fetish have.

I can’t say I can totally handle being on the receiving end of such punishment, but the fantasy is a very arousing one. More than anything what is exciting is that image of a woman ruthlessly wielding power over a man. How absolutely incredible she looks. It almost seems as if ballbusting causes the woman to be possessed with some kind of terrible beauty that borders the line of frightening and leaves both parties feeling exhilarated in different ways.

I’m not trying to sell anyone on the idea of ballbusting, just trying to shine a little light on why someone would enjoy this fetish. Stories or videos are the best way for the uninitiated to observe from a safe distance.

For some it’s the masochistic element - the pain. For others it’s the associated submission to a dominant woman. But for still others like myself, it’s the glaring display of unbridled female beauty in one of its most ruthless and frightening forms.

A Sexual Fetish For Everything

It never ceases to amaze me the wealth of different sexual fantasies and fetishes people have. It almost seems as if there is a fetish for everything, and a fetishist waiting to enjoy it. Not just tastes that seem reasonable, but others ranging from the weird to the flat out outlandish, often seeming to have zero to do with what would commonly be considered sexual.

I would really hazard to say just about any topic one could think of has a fetish related to it, and also adherents with sexual fantasies that incorporate these ideas either directly or indirectly as a necessary and stimulating part. And it’s not just men who push the limits, even the weirdest, most extreme tastes span both the female and male sexes.

Punch in some searches on the internet and it’s amazing what you’ll find. It seems like they’ve dug up a Greek word for everything you can imagine, slapped the Greek “-philia” on the end of it and ta-da another fetish is born.

I remember one of the shock jobs years ago had a guy on who was aroused by the thought of vomit and being vomited on. It’s a sexual fetish called “Emetophilia”, and I’m not making it up. I’m also not trying to sicken anyone reading this, I’m simply reinforcing my point. Something that just about all of us would find not only disgusting and to be avoided at all costs, this guy truly loved. I’m not at all sure why this would be arousing, excepting perhaps some excitement over the repulsive nature of it or a childhood event that made a lasting mark. Got me.

Same holds true with the concept of the toilet slave. This fetish involves human waste in a wide variety of ways. It can be as simple as being aroused by watching a female urinate, all the way up to things done with solid matter that I have no desire to detail here (no offense to those who love this fetish, you know part of why you enjoy it is the reaction most have to toilet slavery). I’ve read that there are plenty of women who share this sexual interest too, wanting to watch men relieve themselves.

I found a set of toilet slave stories that some might find interesting. They mix bondage with the less extreme portions of this fetish. It’s written by a dominatrix talking about things she’s done in session in the pro-BDSM scene.

The Japanese have cultivated this into a whole specialized fetish known as “Omorashi”, a subculture whose sexual fantasies center on the idea of a female with a full bladder and her eventual loss of control. They love watching girls squirm and run around trying to “hold it in”. They even have a whole comic book genre dedicated to it.

And truth is, these two examples are pretty mild compared to some of what is out there. When you cross into heavier forms of BDSM it can get pretty scary, while the people involved love and need this extreme play.

And again, don’t think that women don’t have some odd tastes. Female fantasies are no less extreme, and sometimes are actually further out there.

PS - I found another site that expands on the toilet slave stories I linked to above. Its an extension of those at another location. Like the others, it doesn’t get too extreme, but it talks about a male slave who really loved this fetish and the kind of sexual fantasies he had regarding it.

Female Beauty Of Another Form

I havent written much here yet, but I am sure that any reading will soon wonder about what I said in my first post regarding my shemale fetish, as I call it.

Some will be curious, others mocking, and still more, disgusted. Such is the way of our world. I have had sexual fantasies about transexuals beauties since puberty, and am not ashamed of them.

Like I said, I'm not attracted to men, so masculine, butch or manly transexuals are not my thing, no offense. But I do find something both attractive and intriguing about a shemale who is very beautiful in a very feminine way. One who could pass for female, excepting for what is between her legs.

I think on one level it's the simple fact that she is by all initial appearances, female. But I think it's also that many transexuals study what it is to be a woman, and seek to epitomize that as best as possible. Almost as if they don't take being feminine for granted, as so many born women do. Since they so desire it, they respect it greatly, and seek to embody it as much as possible. Sometimes a shemale will actually be more female in her dress, style and mannerisms than many born women.

And so I think my interest comes from that, and is directed to those who most admire what it is to be feminine. An admiration I share with them, though not in the same way.

Any assumed bisexuality that I have is for the most part that of me in the masculine position. I have been in the receiving role, but only in forced bi femdom sessions - I have an interest in BDSM, from both a dominant and submissive perspective depending on my mood, and happily indulge my sexual fantasies. But even then this would only be with women and beautiful shemales - not forced bi in the sense of me taking other men.

Relationships and other involvements I have had with transexuals in the past have always been with very feminine ladies, who have only wanted to be with truly masculine and dominant men. In most cases these took only the female role in sex, and I only saw them that way. I treated them as what they were - women - and that is what they most desired anyway.

Women Are Beautiful In Dance

Men shouldn’t dance. Not simply because as a man, I have no interest in watching them dance, but because women so put men to shame when it comes to dancing.

The female body, and the natural grace that comes with it was made for dance.

Men are angular and somewhat brutish compared to women. Masculinity fits this, dance does not.

Women are curves and lines, gentle swells and soft rises, fluid motions and song portrayed as movement. They simply are music in the way the move. Female beauty can be expressed wonderfully in song and dance.

Women are also more subtle and emotional traits that enable the dancer to speak to an audience and captivate it.

Dance also has a wonderful effect on the female body. It is the perfect form of exercise for a woman. It tones and shapes her muscles wonderfully, making them slim and tight, bringing out that wonderfully female beauty while avoiding the angles and bulges that look out of place on a woman, but so appropriate on a man.

This is true of all types of dance, from the ballroom dancer to the stripper. From the most elegant and stylized to the blatantly sexy erotic.

Men can learn all the movements and can be extremely talented when it comes to dance, but they cannot compare to the natural ability women have, and the compliment that female beauty is to dance.

The two seem made for one another, which is why men are so drawn to watching women dance. And why men are so easily captivated by a woman who knows how to use her natural gifts to enchant through the movements of her body.

The power of the female dancer, and her effect on men is undeniable. A hot young stripper can command the attention of an entire room. Yes - due to her blatant sexuality, but all the more because this sexuality is blended so perfectly with the movement of her body as she dances.

This is why so many men have sexual fantasies involving exotic dancers, and why guys find hot stripper stories so exciting.

But it’s not only erotic dance that displays female beauty so very well, not at all. Any form of dance - short of the ridiculous - serves to showcase the beauty of a woman, with each type highlighting a particular aspect of it.

Female Beauty - Blessing or Curse

When it comes to beauty, the female has the definite advantage over the male. I don’t say that just because I love women, it’s a simple fact.

Even girls will agree, and I don’t mean lesbian or bisexual ones. Heterosexual women will agree that the female form is more beautiful than the male. It’s not a matter of attraction - a woman may be attracted only to men, and find one she thinks is hot as hell. But she’ll still admit the female form is more beautiful, because it is.

And that, in my estimation, makes man both lucky and cursed.

Lucky, because we have such beautiful, sexy creatures to chase after and catch.

Cursed, because these beautiful, sexy things are so very compelling, and can be as much torture as they are pleasure.

Beauty is like the bait luring the male in for the kill. A powerful tease set to catch and reel him in. Sure, man may be the dominant sex, but the female is not at all without her powers, and can easily turn the tables on her opposite.

Beauty is the bait, and the male sex drive is the fault that makes man fall for the trap.

With just the right look… just the right shift of her hips, or sway of her ass… a woman can so very easily tease a man. Reeling him in as if caught on a hook.

Often enough also, she will do not a single thing. Her mere presence and natural beauty is enough for the man to capture himself, leaving him drawn to her without her having attempted to catch him at all.

And it’s not just the physical beauty. It’s all that is female. The manner and grace. The melodious voice. The naturally sexual air. The simple sum of femininity. All the various parts, but any one can be enough to shift a man from passing notice to total attraction, and then more, filling his sexual fantasies with her.

And it’s not just dominant women - those possessing strong, assertive personalities and sexual tastes - who have tremendous power over men. Even the most submissive female has her control. A woman possessed by a man, is never fully owned, for she will always have a power over her man. Such is the nature of the female and the power of her sex.

What To Start With?

So, this is my new blog. Funny how there are many things I want to write about, but when it comes to doing an opening post, my mind goes blank.

What to start with?

Well, I suppose I could say a little about myself, though I think anything beyond the bare facts would bore most of you to death.

I’m a twenty-six year old male. I’ve gone to college and grad school. Studied history and philosophy. Born on the west coast but living on the east now. Big city born, bred, and currently in one of the largest in the world. I’m a specialized teacher, and well paid for what I do. I travel somewhat as a result, both for research and lecturing.

I consider myself to be heterosexual for the most part, though I do have something of a shemale fetish. Some would probably say I’m bisexual to a degree due to that, but I’m not at all attracted to men. Even when it comes to transexuals, they’ve got to be very feminine, not so much in behavior as appearance. By the behavior part what I mean is, I like tom-boys too, so a feminine shemale who is a bit of a tom-boy is cool with me. But nothing masculine in appearance or over the line in behavior.

But shemale fetish aside, my main thing is girls. All different kinds of girls, in all the different sizes, shapes, ethnicities, etc., one can imagine, so long as there is something about them that gets me. Some hot and sexy quality that I find arousing; something that‘s able to tease me just right. That’s what I like most about traveling - seeing all the kinds of feminine beauty the world has to offer, and then enjoying it intimately.

And that brings me to this blog. I plan to write all different kinds of things here, but since I am so preoccupied with women, I expect girls, sex and fantasies about them to be the primary theme.

And there ya go, something to start this thing with.