Thursday, February 19, 2009

A Little More About Sissy Fantasies and Cross Dressing

…and it’s relation to female beauty.

I found an interesting website this morning, written by a male slave who is essentially thinking out loud over the question of - why are men attracted to the idea of feminization.

Some interesting thoughts there from him, and also from transexuals and cross dressers who wrote comments in reply. One in particular wrote a sizable piece talking about her own happiness at having gone through with her decision to become a female.

He also shares a number of very hot sissy audio stories, recorded by a dominatrix he appears to be quite enamored with (based on the pictures of her that he has posted there, I can understand why. She well fits my thoughts on the kind of female beauty that is bold and confident, full of feminine sexuality and pride).

I’m looking for more sissy audio clips of this sort actually. The ones on the site I am talking about are highly sexual and graphic in nature, and perfect for me to use as examples of the sexual side of feminization as both lifestyle and fetish. (There are also some equally intense sissy stories linked to that site too by the way).

But I’m also looking for softer sissy audio stories that are dedicated to training a man to be more feminine. I want to use it to support my point about how there are many sissy men more interested in developing themselves as women just for that sake alone, than solely the sexual possibilities of feminization.

I myself am not interested in such transformation, but like I said in my first post, I do find shemale beauties to be very attractive. Feminization is the process through which a shemale is made, and my understanding of this subject is beneficial to my overall understanding of these lovely ladies.

Admiring Female Beauty Through Imitation

While I myself am not a cross dresser or sissy, I think I can understand the attraction some men have to the idea of imitating a woman.

Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery after all, and as such, a man seeking to dress and behave like a woman is in its way, a clear compliment to the beauty and grace that is integral to being female.

I say that I can understand the attraction for this exact reason. While my admiration for female beauty doesn’t manifest in this form, I don’t judge the way it does for others. If women weren’t such amazing, beautiful creatures, we wouldn’t be so drawn to them. For some men this draw is so strong they wish they could be female too.

I think it is wrong to try to box the concept of cross dressing into being a “sexual fetish”. While this is true for some, it isn’t for all. For most cross dressers, sex isn’t the focus, being female is. That is where they find their freedom and what they feel to be their true place in the world.

The same thing holds for the “sissy fetish” - which is essentially a more stylized form of cross dressing. While assumed to be a sexual fetish and something done strictly for forms of gay or femdom sex, reality is the real focus for many sissies, just like other cross dressers, is on being female. Given the choice between watching porn and watching a show that described a new type of makeup and its application, most sissies I know would choose the latter with great excitement and anticipation.

Some might call it sick or repulsive, but when looked at from an open mind, cross dressing first and foremost is a life choice made by another person that should be respected as their decision. Secondly, of all the choices on could make, this one in itself, is a harmless one, so there is little to complain about in truth. And finally, it is merely another person’s way of expressing their admiration and love of female beauty, something we all share.