Showing posts with label dominant women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dominant women. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Surfing The Sex Blogs

I saw an article today entitled “The Tao Of The Dominant Woman” and I just thought that so ridiculous.

Obviously I don’t find dominant women ridiculous - the content of this blog makes that clear. It’s just the whole “Tao” thing. Nothing also against Taoist Philosophy or the point behind it, I mean the use of the expression in this particular way.

Could someone write a very serious article examining what that title suggests… of course.

But all to often when someone uses a title like that, the result ends up coming off very cheesy. Like an inflated title used to try to lend the body of the work some air of quality right from the start. Very boring. I'm not linking to that article.

I read another article on a sex addicts blog written by a woman addicted to femdom pegging. That one was excellent. She got so into it that for over a year she worked as a strapon dominatrix just so she could use dildos on men and other women as a job. Her strapon addiction got so bad that she ended up having to seek help. Funny that a femdom would be consumed by her pegging fetish. I guess there is an addiction for everyone, and someone for everything. Even dominant women can get obsessed. Wish I could link to the article but I lost it.

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Another Interesting and Extreme Fetish - Ballbusting

On the topic of female beauty, I find feminine power extremely attractive. Not that feminine submission isn’t equally attractive, just that there are many different sides to the potential of female beauty.

Truly dominant women are creatures of striking appearance and commanding presence. They demand both obedience and attention.

When you add aggression to this mix you have something truly glorious in a way that overwhelms the senses. A being that can and will overpower you on every level. She will have what she desires.

And if you push that aggression to an extreme, you have a ruthless beauty who takes what she wants with little care. Sadism is a lover to her, while her partners are mere victims to feed her appetites; discarded once consumed. And even the strongest of men learn submission at the hands of a superior female who will not be denied.

One example of a fetish that such women enjoy is that of femdom ballbusting.

I know that those unfamiliar with the expression will find its meaning shocking - ballbusting is sexual enjoyment derived from a man being kicked in the groin by a dominant woman.

This is one of the most striking single displays of female physical and sexual power there is. In an instant it removes all pretenses of male dominance, leaving him completely incapacitated and vulnerable. While raising the woman up to a position of complete control.

Picture the image of a woman standing strong and beautiful over a man who is curled in a ball at her feet in pain. High heels. Thigh High Stockings. Tight Dress. Makeup, Hair, Nails - all perfect. The epitome of female sexual power, removing any delusions of dominance the male may have had.

This link will give you an example of what I mean. It will take you to some free ballbusting stories that will give you an idea of what kind of sexual fantasies those enjoying this fetish have.

I can’t say I can totally handle being on the receiving end of such punishment, but the fantasy is a very arousing one. More than anything what is exciting is that image of a woman ruthlessly wielding power over a man. How absolutely incredible she looks. It almost seems as if ballbusting causes the woman to be possessed with some kind of terrible beauty that borders the line of frightening and leaves both parties feeling exhilarated in different ways.

I’m not trying to sell anyone on the idea of ballbusting, just trying to shine a little light on why someone would enjoy this fetish. Stories or videos are the best way for the uninitiated to observe from a safe distance.

For some it’s the masochistic element - the pain. For others it’s the associated submission to a dominant woman. But for still others like myself, it’s the glaring display of unbridled female beauty in one of its most ruthless and frightening forms.

Friday, January 30, 2009

Female Beauty - Blessing or Curse

When it comes to beauty, the female has the definite advantage over the male. I don’t say that just because I love women, it’s a simple fact.

Even girls will agree, and I don’t mean lesbian or bisexual ones. Heterosexual women will agree that the female form is more beautiful than the male. It’s not a matter of attraction - a woman may be attracted only to men, and find one she thinks is hot as hell. But she’ll still admit the female form is more beautiful, because it is.

And that, in my estimation, makes man both lucky and cursed.

Lucky, because we have such beautiful, sexy creatures to chase after and catch.

Cursed, because these beautiful, sexy things are so very compelling, and can be as much torture as they are pleasure.

Beauty is like the bait luring the male in for the kill. A powerful tease set to catch and reel him in. Sure, man may be the dominant sex, but the female is not at all without her powers, and can easily turn the tables on her opposite.

Beauty is the bait, and the male sex drive is the fault that makes man fall for the trap.

With just the right look… just the right shift of her hips, or sway of her ass… a woman can so very easily tease a man. Reeling him in as if caught on a hook.

Often enough also, she will do not a single thing. Her mere presence and natural beauty is enough for the man to capture himself, leaving him drawn to her without her having attempted to catch him at all.

And it’s not just the physical beauty. It’s all that is female. The manner and grace. The melodious voice. The naturally sexual air. The simple sum of femininity. All the various parts, but any one can be enough to shift a man from passing notice to total attraction, and then more, filling his sexual fantasies with her.

And it’s not just dominant women - those possessing strong, assertive personalities and sexual tastes - who have tremendous power over men. Even the most submissive female has her control. A woman possessed by a man, is never fully owned, for she will always have a power over her man. Such is the nature of the female and the power of her sex.